Jan 1, 2019

Fantasy Media & Adoption

 Not everybody likes fantasy. Those who do usually like different types. I like scary and action movies. I don’t think Millie likes scary ones at all. On this New Year’s Day, in addition to  bringing my sons over to a friends house to help him load the U-Haul, taking some one on one time to build character in two of my magnificent young sons, gluing a skull wound, completing a daylong project that should’ve been done a couple years ago, and talking to my wife about what this year will hold in store for us, I fit in a great little fantasy movie on Netflix with some fun scary scenes.   In my mind, fantasy is great for anyone who has had struggles that may seem out of the ordinary. Adopted children definitely fit that category. I believe I fit that category, particularly because of having  my mother die from cancer at a young age. I related well with the movie, and recommend it to anyone who likes scary fantasies, or has an adopted child who likes scary fantasies and wants to experience through movie the love of a parent!  It takes me back to earlier today when my 17-year-old was struggling just a little… Keep in mind that he is one of the most amazing teenagers you will ever meet… And I was helping him to understand the love of a mother: such that she’ll stop what she’s doing  to teach and direct in a loving way, that she will put forth the effort to build character within him even when he’s so close to being old enough to go out and conquer the world,  that she understands him in such a way that she will guide and direct his opportunities to make him uncomfortable enough so he can grow, that she will never leave him alone, and that she will always be there to give love and affection, and to discuss anything and everything.   It’s been a good family day, a great way to begin the year!


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